For archive purposes, this article is being stored on TheWE.cc website.
The purpose is to advance understandings of environmental, political,
human rights, economic, democracy, scientific, and social justice issues.

 
PalmBeachPost.com Home


  
High school senior came 'out' — and was expelled

By Elizabeth Clarke, Palm Beach Post Religion Writer
Saturday, October 25, 2003

JUPITER — Jeffrey Woodard's parents never took him to church.   They certainly didn't ever plan to send him to a religious high school.   But when he was 14, Jeffrey asked his mom if he could attend Jupiter Christian School.   He told her he felt God leading him there.

Carol Gload liked the idea.   She thought it would help Jeff spiritually and academically, and he started after Thanksgiving of his freshman year.   As a senior this year, he was especially looking forward to singing in the choir and Bible class.

But on the third day of school, his Bible teacher — who is also the school chaplain — pulled him out of class with a personal question.   Jeffrey said the teacher assured him they were having a confidential conversation, and then asked whether it was true that Jeffrey was a homosexual.

"I told him, 'Yes, I am gay,' " Jeffrey says.   "I was just being totally honest with him because I don't lie."

Two days later, he was expelled.

In a short meeting at the school, he and his mother say, they were offered the options of counseling to change Jeff's sexual orientation, voluntary withdrawal or expulsion.   The first two choices weren't acceptable to them, leaving only expulsion.

"I was just shocked," says Jeffrey, who was not public about his sexuality at school.   "I just couldn't believe what I was hearing."

His mom is outraged — and sad that her son had to go through this.   She and Jeffrey filed a lawsuit against the school Tuesday.

"He was crushed," Gload says, tears welling in her eyes.   "He was devastated.   It was very hard."

But it's something that could happen at other Christian schools in Florida, even those that accept public money through the state's voucher program as Jupiter Christian does.

The law doesn't prohibit sexual discrimination at private schools, according to Howard Burke, executive director of the Florida Association of Christian Colleges and Schools, which represents 170 conservative Christian schools in Florida.

Schools that accept disabled students using vouchers must comply with a federal code banning discrimination based on race, color or national origin — but not sexuality, he says.

"Christian schools do not have to compromise their biblical standards to accept a child on a voucher," Burke says.

The state Department of Education did not respond to repeated requests to confirm that.

Gload disagrees with Jupiter Christian's stance on homosexuality but believes the school is entitled to it.   The policy, however, should be explicitly stated in the school's documents for students and parents to consider, she says.   And she doesn't think it should be able to accept vouchers.

"I have trouble with them taking any nickel from my pocket to support their discrimination," she says.   "If this is their policy, they need to put it out there."

Minding his own business

Even if what happened to Jeffrey was legal, that doesn't make it right, says Jamie Foreman, president of the Palm Beach County Human Rights Council, a watchdog group for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transsexual issues.

"Here we have a kid who was minding his own business," he says.   "He had told a few confidantes, which is something we all need to do.   And he was lined up and flushed out of the closet and expelled from school."

Forty-year-old Jupiter Christian School is a conservative, Bible-based school that is not affiliated with any church.   About 630 students attend grades K-12; high-schoolers pay $6,575 a year to attend.

Sexuality is not addressed specifically in the student handbook.   But the book does spell out behavior expectations, school President Rich Grimm said before the suit was filed.   Parents and students agree to those standards each year in paperwork submitted for admission, he said.

The handbook's conduct code says students' goal should be obeying Scripture and that they should "practice courtesy, kindness, morality, honesty and consideration" with teachers, employees, fellow students and visitors.

It lists three reasons for automatic expulsion: bringing a weapon to school; threatening a teacher, student or administrator; or committing a felony.

Jeffrey did none of those things, he and his mother say.

Grimm couldn't comment, saying privacy laws prohibit it.   The school — like several area Christian schools — does not have a separate policy for gay students.   It handles all discipline issues individually, Grimm said.

"Obviously, the story you've heard is incomplete," he said before the suit was filed.   "Unfortunately, we can't get into the details because of privacy laws and school policy."

Grimm posted a short note to parents, students and supporters on the school's Web site Wednesday.   He said it was the only comment he could make on the lawsuit.

"Please know that we dispute many of the 'facts' in the claim, as some of this information contradicts our records and timeline," it reads in part.   "We have faith that the ministry of Jupiter Christian School will be exonerated."

In a letter to school supporters released Friday, Grimm provided a few more details, saying the school went to "extraordinary lengths" to work with Gload and her son on several issues.

"Jupiter Christian School officials did not 'out' Mr. Woodard nor did we violate any request for confidentiality," Grimm writes.   "Any allegation to the contrary is simply false."

Grimm also wrote that he believes the court will uphold the school's right to set its own rules.   "The bottom line is that this lawsuit is a backdoor attempt at attacking our constitutionally protected rights of religious freedom and free expression."

Jeffrey, 18, admits he struggled academically last year.   He failed Algebra II and Spanish II.   But he and his mom heard nothing about academic problems or other disciplinary concerns in the 10-minute discussion before he was expelled.

The school offered Gload the chance to appeal the decision to its board of directors, but she didn't want to do that.

"I was told that he was expelled," she says.   "That was the end of it for me."

Jeffrey now attends Jupiter High School.   He's open about his sexuality there, unlike at Jupiter Christian.   He's working to start a gay-straight student alliance.

And he wouldn't go back to Jupiter Christian if he could.

"I've been so much more positive since then," he says.   "I've been feeling a lot better about myself.   I don't fear coming out."

But those first days after being expelled were awful.

After the conversation with his Bible teacher, Jeffrey went right home and told his mother.

She already knew he was gay.   He'd come out to her during the summer, after experiencing depression last year and eventually finding a psychiatrist who helped him accept his sexuality.   That came only after he had prayed — and had pastors pray over him — for God to change his sexuality.

"Of course, none of it had worked," he said.

Jeff said his mom was great about accepting his sexuality.

"All she did was give me a hug and tell me she loved me."

Her reaction led him to tell a few of his closest friends — about six people — at school.   But he had no plans to let anyone else know or to get involved in a relationship.   He knew the school wouldn't approve.

He says he doesn't know whether those half-dozen friends told others or whether he was the talk of the school.

But someone told his Bible teacher.

A few hours after Jeffrey's teacher asked him whether he was gay, his mom got a phone call at home from Rachel Sanders, the school's dean of students.

She said they needed to have a conference — before Jeffrey could attend the senior retreat set for early the next week.   Gload asked whether she needed to bring an attorney, but Sanders told her, "it would not be that kind of conversation," Gload says.

On Sunday afternoon, they arrived on campus.   Sanders greeted them warmly and told them Grimm wanted to join them.   They went to his office.

Grimm started the conversation, Jeffrey and his mom say.

"It has come to our attention that your son is a homosexual and we'd like to know what you'd like to do about it," he said, according to Jeffrey and his mom.

That's when he provided the three options: help with his "problem," withdrawal or expulsion.

Gload told Grimm, "I don't consider being gay to be a problem."

Jeffrey said he wouldn't withdraw.

"I told them, 'I love this school.   I love what I've learned.   I'm proud of how I've been able to grow here, especially in my knowledge of the Bible.   I don't want to withdraw from this school and I won't withdraw from this school.' "

Gload asked Grimm why her son couldn't simply complete his senior year.

"If you're asking us to accept him, we cannot do that," she says Grimm told her.   "We have an image to protect."

That left expulsion.

Jeffrey's mom requested a letter citing the violations of school policy that led to his expulsion.   The school handbook requires it, reading, "both he/she and the parents shall be notified in person and in writing as to the reason for the expulsion by the school deans."

Gload's brief letter doesn't provide that.

It reads: "As we discussed, this letter serves as official notice to you that your son, Jeffrey Woodard, is expelled from Jupiter Christian school effective immediately.   Please contact Jennifer Ceppo in our enrollment office to facilitate transfer of Jeffrey's records.   Please know that we will be praying for you and your family during this transition."

Grimm said he couldn't discuss the letter.

The lawsuit requests both clarification of the school's policy regarding gay and lesbian students and an official explanation of why Jeffrey was expelled.   He will need it to apply to colleges, the suit says.   Without it, schools might assume he was expelled for violence.

"I just want to know by whose definition of Christianity can you expel someone this way," said W. Trent Steele, attorney for Jeffrey and his mom.   "He's a sweet kid, and I think he deserved better than this."

Asking for honesty

Jeffrey has been back to the school once, to pick up his shot records.

He's heard from friends that the rumor around school is that he was kicked out for being gay.   His friends are mad, he says, but don't want to comment on the record.

His mom is still outraged.

"For as many years as Jeffrey has gone there, I heard what a wonderful kid he was and a positive role model," she says.   "For them to think so highly of him and now just turn their backs on him is very hard."

Gload spent the first week after the expulsion upset and worried about her son's emotional health and where he would finish high school.

Now she just hopes that by speaking out, her family might help another child avoid a similar situation.

"I think this school needs to be honest about who they are," she said.   "If I had known this was their policy, I never would have sent him there this year.   That was the most devastating thing I've seen him go through."





Copyright © 2003   The Palm Beach Post.   All rights reserved.






Weekly Column

Wednesday, July 20, 2005

by Wayne Besen

In May, 16-year old Zach told his fundamentalist Christian parents that he is gay.   Horrified by the news, they vowed to fix him by sending him to an "ex-gay" boot camp in Memphis to be reprogrammed.   Like a modern day message in a bottle, Zach used his Internet blog to send an SOS.   Miraculously, his desperate plea for help washed up on the shores of sanity and circulated in cyberspace at warp speed.

"I told my parents I was gay," he wrote.   "This didn't go over very well," and "They tell me that there is something psychologically wrong with me, and they 'raised me wrong.'   Today, my mother, father and I had a very long talk in my room, where they let me know I am to apply for a fundamentalist Christian program for gays."

The next day, Zach threw another bottle into the Cyber-sea.

"It's like boot camp.   If I do come out straight, I'll be so mentally unstable and depressed it won't matter."

By now, Zach's plight has received worldwide attention and the spotlight has shone brightly on the debatably abusive and coercive tactics used by Love in Action, the cult that runs the ex-gay boot camp for youth called "Refuge".

With all the focus on this young man, another pair of victims in this tragedy has largely gone unnoticed: Zach's parents.   They have alternately been portrayed as abusive or religious zealots.   Indeed, Zach's father, Joe Stark, unwisely appeared on Pat Robertson's 700 Club to defend his decision to enroll his son in Refuge.

"We felt very good about Zach coming here because"...to let him see for himself the destructive lifestyle, what he has to face in the future, and to give him some options that society doesn't give him today," Stark told the toothy televangelist.   "Knowing that your son...statistics say that by the age of 30 he could either have AIDS or be dead."

These are the words of a father who clearly loves his child.   He is doing what any sane father would do, and that is using all available means to protect his son.   Stark believes he is doing what is necessary to keep Zach from a premature death and an unhappy life.

The problem is, all his assumptions are based on deliberate misinformation spread by quacks or charlatans who have a political or profit motive in deceiving the public.   Stark is a parental pawn in the culture wars and I believe he will one day come to greatly resent this unethical manipulation by the extreme right.

First, his statement that gay people die at 30 comes directly from the work of Paul Cameron, a disgraced researcher who was kicked out of the American Psychological Association for distorting the facts on homosexuality.   Second, it is clear from Zach's blog that Stark bought the right wing lie that Zach is gay because he wasn't raised properly.

This canard is a staple of conversion therapy and a mammoth burden weighted on the shoulders of guilt-ridden parents who did nothing wrong, but are assigned blame.   Parenting has no more to do with a child's sexual orientation than it does with determining height or handedness.   Mounting evidence points to sexual orientation resulting from biological factors.   Unfortunately, Zach's parents are being victimized by the right wing offering them outdated and disproved research from the 1950's and 60's.   I suspect, in time, they will also be outraged by the right's dubious use of "blame the parents" pseudo science.

Look, there is no way in the short run that this is going to end well for the Stark family.   They enrolled their son in a failed program where the co-founder, John Evans, dropped out after his friend Jack McIntyre, also in the program, committed suicide because he couldn't change.   I photographed Love in Action's poster boy, John Paulk, in a seedy gay bar.   The group's youngest graduate and spokesperson, Wade Richards, is now a gay activist.   Needless to say, the group has credibility problems, especially when one explores their bizarre techniques.

"I'm looking at that wall and suddenly I say its blue," Love In Action's director, John Smid told the alternative newspaper The Memphis Flyer, while pointing to a yellow wall.   "Someone else comes along and says, 'No, it's gold.'   But I want to believe that wall is blue.   Then God comes along and He says, You're right, John, [that yellow wall] is blue.'   That's the help I need.   God can help me make that [yellow] wall blue."

Don't get angry at or lose faith in the Stark family.   Like most parents, they will need time to sort through the pernicious myths and misinformation.   When the high priced miracles and magic fail, they will see that yellow walls don't become blue and gay people don't turn straight.   At that point, the Starks will have to choose between valuing their family or Pat Robertson's family values.   My bet is they will embrace Zach over Pat.






March 12 / 13, 2005
Why Not Jeb and W.'s Kids First?
Labeling Kids Mentally Ill for Profit
By EVELYN PRINGLE
C iting recommendations by the New Freedom Commission on Mental Health (NFC), Bush wants to launch a nationwide mental illness screening program in government institutions, including the public school system, for all students from kindergarten up to the 12th grade.

The New Freedom Commission was established by an Executive Order Bush issued on April 29, 2002.  According to a July 22, 2003, press release, the Commission recommends transforming America's mental health care system.

Achieving this goal will require greater engagement and education of first line health care providers — primary care practitioners — and a greater focus on mental health care in institutions such as schools, child welfare programs, and the criminal and juvenile justice systems.  The goal is integrated care that can screen, identify, and respond to problems early, the Commission's press release stated.

According to the NFC, its recommendations are being already being promoted in Alaska; Arizona; Arkansas; California; Colorado; Connecticut; Delaware; Florida; Georgia; Hawaii; Idaho; Illinois; Indiana; Kansas; Kentucky; Louisiana; Maryland; Massachusetts; Michigan; Montana; Nebraska; New Hampshire; New Jersey; New Mexico; New York; North Carolina; North Dakota; Ohio; Oklahoma; South Carolina; Tennessee; Texas; Utah; Virginia; Washington; West Virginia; Wisconsin; and Wyoming.

The truth is, this is nothing but another Bush profiteering scheme to implement a drug treatment program for use in the public institutions that will generate high volume sales of the relatively new, but inadequately tested, high-priced psychiatric drugs.  If all goes as planned, the scheme will generate millions of new customers for the drug companies.

Original Scheme Hatched In Texas

The commission's final report identifies what it claims are several model programs as examples of how aspects of mental health care have been transformed in selected communities.

One program is the Texas Medication Algorithm Project (TMAP), a medication treatment program that screens people for mental illness and then prescribes highly profitably psychiatric drugs.

However, the plan came under intense scrutiny when it was implemented in the state of Pennsylvania.  A whistle-blower by the name of Allen Jones,* who was an employee of the Pennsylvania office of Inspector General, published a report that described how medical leaders in Pennsylvania who controlled the medication plan, received payments from the drug companies who were going to benefit from the plan.

Through the Texas scheme, drug companies were able to gain unlimited access to the Texas prison system, juvenile justice system, foster care program, and state mental health hospitals, to recruit new customers.

In Texas, the list of medications to be prescribed was established by what was termed, an expert consensus, and drugs recommended for first line treatment, included high-priced drugs such as Paxil, Zyprexa, Adderall, Zoloft, Risperdal, Seroqual, Depakote, Prozac, Wellbutron, Zyban, Remeron, Serzone, and Effexor.

After securing access to the public systems, the next step in the Texas scheme was to get lawmakers to pass legislation to increase Medicaid coverage to persons who ordinarily would not qualify, in order to provide funding by way of tax dollars to pay for the drugs prescribed to customers within theses systems.

The fact is, our children are already being overmedicated.  According to a May, 2003 report by the New York Times, "National sales of anti-psychotics reached $6.4 billion in 2002, making them the fourth-highest-selling class of drugs, behind cholesterol-lowering drugs, ulcer drugs and antidepressants.

The number of children on antidepressant medication increased by over 500% between 1999 and 2003.  Antidepressants and anti-psychotics now constitute two of the four top classes of drug sales.

For example, Zyprexa is manufactured by Eli Lilly and is one of the drugs on the list in Texas.  In 2002, according to the watchdog group, NDC Health, "more than 7.4 million prescriptions were written for Zyprexa."

In 2003, it became Eli Lilly's top seller with worldwide sales of over $4 billion.  According to the New York Times, 70% of the Zyprexa purchased in the US that year, was paid for by government programs like Medicare and Medicaid.

Eli Lilly has well-known ties to the Bush administration.  After he left the CIA in 1977, Bush Senior became a member of Lilly's board of directors.  When he left the company to become Vice President under Reagan in 1980, he forgot to mention that he owned stock in the company at the same time that he was lobbying for tax breaks for the company even though it manufactured drugs in Puerto Rico.  Bush Junior made Eli Lilly CEO, Sidney Taurel, a member of the Homeland Security Council.

During the 2000 presidential election year, Lilly gave over $1.5 million to political candidates and over 80% that $1.5 million went to Bush and other Republican candidates.

Many members of the New Freedom Commission also have ties to the pharmaceutical industry and have served on drug company advisory boards.

What's In Store For Us

The NFC appointed 15 subcommittees to review of the mental health service delivery system and appointed a Chair for each one.  Several other Commissioners served on each subcommittee, and chose experts to provide advice and support.  The experts prepared discussion papers that outlined key issues and presented policy options for consideration by the full subcommittee.  The subcommittee reported to the full Commission only in summary form, on which the full Commission reached a consensus on the policy options that would be included in its final report entitled, Achieving the Promise: Transforming Mental Health Care in America.

A February 5, 2003, summary report by the Policy Options Subcommittee on Medicaid, began by stating, An effective and comprehensive mental health system must rely on many sources of financing.  Many States have made significant use of flexibility in the Medicaid program to support their systems of care.  This has resulted in Medicaid being the largest payer of public mental health services in the country.

The report outlined the following recommendations:
Enhance Service Delivery

1. Public financing should support evidenced-based practices that are necessary and effective for successful community living.

2. Medicaid financial incentives and opportunities for the most appropriate community-based care should be increased.

Enhance Service Planning and Coordination

1. Federal leadership should guide and facilitate improved planning among State agencies that fund and implement services for persons with mental illness.

2. The federal government should assure proper data collection and reporting to facilitate and support mental health planning and quality management at all levels of the public mental health system.
One February 5, 2003, report by a subcommittee titled, Promoting, Preserving and Restoring Children's Mental Heath, began in part, by saying, Mental health problems among children and adolescents constitute a public health crisis for our nation. ... The extent, severity, and far-reaching consequences of mental health problems in children and adolescents make it imperative that our nation adopt a comprehensive, systematic, public health approach to improving the mental health status of children, the report said.

The approach, the report advised, should focus on both strengthening services and supports for children with serious emotional disorders and their families, and on prevention and early intervention strategies for all children.

The subcommittee wanted the Federal and State governments to formulate a plan to (1) implement a cross-agency, comprehensive, public health approach for children's mental health at Federal and State levels; (2) strengthen children's mental health focus in State governments; and (3) establish a Federal interagency entity for children's mental health.

As for funding, the subcommittee said: Federal and state agencies and commercial insurers should realign funding policies related to children's mental health to support a comprehensive array of services and supports, including home and community based services and supports that are individualized, family focused, coordinated, and culturally competent.

The subcommittee specified that a plan should be developed for Medicaid to support home and community-based services and support and individualized care, and maximize strategies to provide coverage and mental health care to uninsured children.

In addition, the subcommittee wanted the government to provide technical assistance related to more efficient and effective implementation of early and periodic screening, diagnosis, and treatment (EPSDT).

Here's good one.  The subcommittee we should strengthen Federal and State requirements for family participation.  Federal and state governments should promote a broader concept of mental health services for children and adolescents with emotional disorders and their families, it advised.

Recognizing that children receive more services through schools than any other public system, the report recommended that federal, state, and local agencies should more fully recognize and address the mental health needs of youth in the education system, it advised.  Likewise, these agencies should work collaboratively with families and develop, evaluate, and disseminate effective approaches for providing mental health services and supports to youth in schools, it wrote.

The subcommittee recommended training teachers and school personnel to recognize signs of emotional problems in children and to make appropriate referrals for assessment and services.  Systematic screening procedures to identify ... problems and treatment needs should be implemented in specific settings in which youngsters are at high risk for emotional disorders or where there is known to be a high prevalence of these or co-occurring mental health and substance abuse disorders, according to the report.

And get this! Anyone involved in the juvenile justice system or welfare system is really in for trouble.  Screening should be implemented upon entry into, and periodically thereafter in, the juvenile justice and child welfare systems, as well as in other settings and populations with known high risk, such as the Medicaid population.  When mental health problems are identified, youth should be linked with appropriate services and supports, the report advised.

This gang of thugs is even coming up with ways to make money off infants shortly after they enter the world.  This particular report recommends screening for all children ages 0 to 5 for social and emotional development as part of primary health care visits.

Mega-Bucks For Shrinks

Dr Jane Orient, the Executive Director of the Association of American Physicians and Surgeons (AAPS) has a few things to say about this latest profiteering scheme.  "Teams of experts are awaiting an infusion of cash, she says, They'll be ensconced in your child's school before you even know it.

Orient says an added bonus is that your little darlings will probably give them quite a bit of information about you also, and then you can receive therapy you didn't know you needed."

According to Orient, kids will be asked invasive personal questions like whether their parents raise their voice, or Ever spank them? Have politically incorrect attitudes? Use forbidden words? Own a gun? Smoke cigarettes, especially indoors? Read extremist literature? Refuse to recycle? Prepare for a knock at the door."

The answers to these questions could lead to a home visit with parents, and accusations of "poor parenting skills, inadequate housekeeping, harmful literature, or a baby who is crying. ...," Orient warns.

She lists the many tools at the disposal of what she calls "the mental health squad," including "Counseling sessions.  Drugs.  Group therapy.  Removing the child from the home."  Although removing a child from the home is listed as a last resort, the mere threat of it "can accomplish wonders," Orient noted.

According to the he University of Wisconsin-Whitewater Student Health Center, privacy rights are essentially being ignored.  The center is telling patients that if government agencies want to see their medical records, they get to review them without a patient's knowledge or consent.  "By law we cannot reveal when we have disclosed such information to the government," the center advised.

Screen Those In Dire Need First

If you want to see mental illness, just go knock on the door of the White House, or the Bushës home in Crawford, Texas.  I recommend that we start this mandatory screening program with the Bush family.

Lets find some treatment for their deep-seeded mental health problems.  For instance, what rotten things happened in the Bush home that drove the twins to start drinking excessively while under age.  And what emotional problems caused them to intentionally embarrass their father in a matter of months after he took office.

Then lets screen the President's nieces and nephews to see why Jeb's kids find it appropriate to forge prescriptions for drugs, and why his son would engage in underage sex in a car parked in a public shopping center lot.  Or why Jeb's wife would try to smuggle in goods from other countries without paying the fees.

Then lets move on to brother Neil and have him screened to find out what compelled him to have sex with strange women who showed up at his motel room door in foreign countries, which resulted in a case of incurable VD.  And let's find out what possessed him to have an affair with his mother's secretary while both parties were still very married.

Next, let's line up members of the Bush administration and find out what compulsions need eradicating.  Then let's continue on to the officials at the FDA and figure out what happened to their consciences, which allow them to promote medicating kids for profits.

Granted, the "New Freedom Commission" is a catchy title.  However, words can be very deceptive.  I fail to see how forcing people to undergo mental health testing can possibly represent freedom, or how drugging people for profit can hardly be viewed as a form of freedom.

I agree with an article I read on NewsTarget.com that said, these people have lost their minds in a mad attempt to generate obscene profits regardless of the cost to human life, individual privacy, and human rights.



Evelyn Pringle lives in Miamisburg Ohio. 



* To the millions of doctors, parents and patients who will be affected, Allen Jones says educate yourselves.  The Internet has many sites that will help you.  The Alliance for Human Research Protection, www.ahrp.org would be a good place to start.

























































































































































































































 





































 
For archive purposes, this article is being stored on TheWE.cc website.
The purpose is to advance understandings of environmental, political,
human rights, economic, democracy, scientific, and social justice issues.